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Setting Realistic Expectations

Setting realistic expectations can be hard for anyone; let alone those of us battling chronic health issues. Read on to find out some of the things that Justin and Shawna…
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Stories from the inside.
Honest reflections on disability, caregiving, trauma, identity, and the relationships that hold us together.
This blog is where we tell the truth about what life with disability and caregiving actually feels like; the messy parts, the tender parts, the funny parts, the heartbreaking parts, and the moments that change you in ways you never expected. These aren’t polished stories or clinical explanations (though Shawna may geek out over some science-y stuff every now and again).

They’re lived experiences. They’re the things we wish someone had told us sooner. They’re the moments that make you think, “Oh. It’s not just me.” If you’ve ever felt unseen, misunderstood, or overwhelmed by the weight of this life, you’ll find pieces of yourself here

What you'll find here

Our blog is a mix of:

• Personal stories from our life with MG, TBI, PTSD, chronic illness, and caregiving
• Reflections on identity, grief, resilience, and rebuilding
• Relationship insights from a marriage shaped by disability
• Moments of humor because sometimes you have to laugh to survive
• Hard truths that no one prepares you for
• Small victories that deserve to be celebrated

Every post is written with honesty, warmth, and the hope that it helps someone feel less alone.

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Caregiving will change you.

Caregiving will change you. This seems like an obvious statement but when I was starting out there was no way I could fully appreciate the reality. Let’s imagine there were…
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Recovery Tracking (Lite)

Recovery is one of the most confusing parts of chronic illness. You can do everything “right” and still wake up wiped out, foggy, or unsteady. You can rest all day…
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The Cost of Looking Fine

There’s a strange moment that happens when you live in a body that doesn’t match the story people tell about you. You walk into a room, or you show up…
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