Honest conversations and real talk about real-life disability and caregiving.

A space built from lived experience so you feel seen, equipped, understood, and surrounded by people who get it.

What is "In Sickness and Nevermind"?

Real life doesn’t pause for chronic illness, PTSD, TBI, or caregiving — and neither do we.
In Sickness and Nevermind is a resource hub created by a disabled Veteran and her husband, a male caregiver navigating his own TBI. We’re here to talk about the parts of disability and caregiving that most people avoid, minimize, or don’t understand at all.
This is a place for real talk, practical tools, and the kind of honesty that makes you exhale and think, “Finally. Someone gets it.”
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Guide

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Start with something practical.

Our guides blend lived experience with clear, actionable steps like scripts, checklists, and the things we learned the hard way.

Dear ISAN

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You're not the only one asking the hard questions.

Dear ISAN is our advice column for the moments you don't know who to talk to, what to say, or how to navigate the emotional landmines of disability and caregiving.

Blog

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Stories from the inside.

Our blog is where we share the real, messy, funny, human side of life with disability and caregiving. The moments that shape us, stretch us, and sometimes break us wide open.

Community Invitation

Join our Facebook community - a space for connection, conversation, and support from people who understand the weight you’re carrying.

Happy Mail Nominations

A kindness project for anyone who needs a little light.

Nominate someone who could use a handwritten card, a moment of joy, or a reminder that they matter. It’s free, accessible, and open to anyone.
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